In this episode of the Young Dad Podcast, host Jey Young sits down with Chris Lewis, co-founder of Fathering Together, to discuss the transformative power of active engagement in fatherhood. From building a community of supportive dads to embracing vulnerability and navigating parenting challenges, Chris shares practical insights for redefining what it means to be a father in today’s world.
The Power of Engagement and Vulnerability
Chris emphasizes the importance of fathers being engaged in their children’s lives from the very beginning. This means participating in their interests, even when they differ from your own, and being willing to show vulnerability. “Vulnerability is key,” Chris explains, as it strengthens relationships within families and builds trust within a broader community of dads.
Cherishing Fleeting Moments
One of the most poignant takeaways from the conversation is the reminder that time with children is fleeting. Chris urges dads to cherish every moment and focus on listening rather than always trying to fix. By being present and emotionally available, dads can foster stronger bonds with their kids.
Building a Supportive Community
Fathering Together began as a blog and evolved into a vibrant community for dads to connect, share experiences, and support one another. Chris highlights the importance of these networks, noting that every father’s journey is unique but enriched by learning from others. Advocacy and lifting each other up are central to creating a culture where dads feel empowered in their roles.
Key Takeaways
Start early: Engage with your children’s lives and interests from the beginning.
Show vulnerability: It’s essential for building trust and meaningful relationships.
Cherish the moment: Time with your children is precious and fleeting.
Focus on listening: Understand your kids’ perspectives before offering solutions.
Create connections: Build or join supportive communities to navigate fatherhood together.
Celebrate uniqueness: There’s no single right way to be a father; every journey is different.
Advocate for dads: Empower each other to redefine modern fatherhood.
Chris’s work with Fathering Together serves as a powerful reminder that engaged, supportive dads have a lasting impact not only on their children but also on society. By being present, vulnerable, and connected, fathers can truly transform the parenting experience.
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